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The expectation or requirement

  • Writer: Lena
    Lena
  • Feb 26
  • 2 min read

The expectation or requirement I have for every single person who meets with me is to clearly express their criteria and wishes for a future partner. They describe the wonderful qualities their ideal partner should have—how much money they should earn, how stunning their appearance should be, and how extraordinary they must be to make them happy.


At the end of these impressive lists, I often ask them to choose three top priorities—sometimes just two. And that’s when many people freeze, struggling to decide, because they believe they deserve absolutely everything.


Through my experience, I’ve learned that without clear priorities, finding a partner becomes much more difficult. A client who truly understands what is most important to them—what will genuinely make them happy—will be easier to work with and will have a much greater chance of experiencing a real, meaningful connection.


I have for every single person who meets with me is to clearly express their criteria and wishes for a future partner. They describe the wonderful qualities their ideal partner should have—how much money they should earn, how stunning their appearance should be, and how extraordinary they must be to make them happy.


At the end of these impressive lists, I often ask them to choose three top priorities—sometimes just two. And that’s when many people freeze, struggling to decide, because they believe they deserve absolutely everything.


Through my experience, I’ve learned that without clear priorities, finding a partner becomes much more difficult. A client who truly understands what is most important to them—what will genuinely make them happy—will be easier to work with and will have a much greater chance of experiencing a real, meaningful connection.


Lena

 
 
 

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